I’m really struggling to piece together and line up some events from 2008/2009 but it was an insanely busy time for me. The way my memory super power works is that I can usually pull up details and vignettes from anything that attracted my attention and made an impression but that almost never includes calendars – I’m not even entirely sure what day it is today.
The thing that kills me is that I did keep a detailed diary during this period for the only time in my life because my roommate Stephany Colunga gave me one from her job at American Girl for Christmas at the end of 2007. Of course I’ve long since lost it along with every other physical object I used to own but not before a friend in the Bay Area turned it into a zine and made a handful of copies.
His room now sits unoccupied at The Purple Haus with the exception of all his stuff and an ongoing dispute with his former housemates prevents anyone from even looking inside. Of course I don’t know for sure that a copy is even in there but the tantalizing possibility that one could be will continue to torture me until I get a definitive statement one way or the other.
The situation reminds me a bit of something that happened when I moved back to San Diego after 9/11. I was using heroin with a friend named Daniel and decided to lend him my entire collection of Fort Thunder adjacent zines and mini-comics – the drug would still trigger states of intense emotional openness and generosity at this early stage of my use.
Not long after he lost his housing situation and put everything, including my comics, into a storage unit. I would beg him to either take the time to dig them out or drive me there so I could do it myself every time I’d run into him but it never seemed to be a good time. Finally, two or three years later, he lapsed on his storage fees and the unit was auctioned off to someone who most likely threw it all away.
He offered to reimburse me financially but I didn’t see any point as everything in there had been literally irreplaceable and held the kind of conditional and subjective value which is best kept insulated from money as far as humanly possible.
Anyway enough of all that. Here are some sections of timeline I can be absolutely sure of:
- I bought a used Boss Dr Groove drum machine from Rand Sevilla that he had used in his band Carpet of Sexy while passing through Chicago after the Living Hell tour in June of 2008.
- After the Santa Monica GLOW festival on July 22, 2008 I went on a short West Coast tour using counterfeit Greyhound passes with Rebekah Clendening and Cole Miller from Vortal Curb where we played a mix of songs from me and Bekah’s defunct rap group Chew on This and what would later be called Bleak End at Bernie’s.
- The first solo Bleak End at Bernie’s shows were in Australia on a trip that lasted at least until my birthday on August 23, 2008.
- I was around Los Angeles for the first Mojave Rave on July 11, 2009 and in Berlin the night Michael Jackson died on June 25, 2009.
I know that somewhere mixed in there I went on tour with the band CAVE but no matter how hard I try to concatenate this onto established dates I end up with weird discrepancies. I know that I played Bleak End at Bernie’s sets at one or two of the shows but I also remember jumping off a tour to ride buses and trains to California with the girl I call Leg when Bleak End shouldn’t have existed yet.
Maybe I’m mixing some details up or there were two different tours I rode along for part of but I’m just going to round the whole thing to somewhere in 2008.
CAVE are a psychedelic kraut-rock band from Chicago that get lumped into a thing called the “Columbia Diaspora” as the core members come from Columbia, Missouri. I tried poking around their Wikipedia page for details that might help me pin down specifics and found some amusing misinformation.
Rotten Milk has been using his moniker for long before he started playing with CAVE and he definitely isn’t 49. This reminded me of an incident one or two days after I started riding with the band where Cooper had me answer all of a local reporter’s interview questions specifically because I wasn’t in the band and knew next to nothing about it. With that in mind I realized that media coverage isn’t likely to yield any reliable or useful information.
In the Winter of 2007 I had just gotten back to Chicago from living on The Miss Rockaway Armada and brought the cat Night Beaver to the apartment I shared with Stephany. I was supposed to be sticking around town, especially because I’d just brought home a pet, but every time I left for “just a couple days” I’d wind up gone for weeks. The first time was probably November of 2007 when I rode along for a Minneapolis show and then stuck around through Texas and New Orleans.
I’ve got a lot of memories from Columbia, Missouri so it would make sense for them to be spread over two different trips. In one of them I got blacked out drunk in the house we were staying at and decided it would be funny to keep “accidentally” walking into the room some people were having sex in. The next day Cooper said he saw me and Zach McLuckie engaged in an “Eskimo Fight” – essentially taking turns punching each other as hard in the head as possible.
Neither of us remembered doing this or how it might have started the following morning. I’ve got a pretty hard head and plenty of stories about getting punched or having chairs broken over it without suffering too much damage. It’s possible now that I think about it that this would have been my first visit to Iowa City and not Columbia at all – I think both Jeff Witscher and Brandon “NIMBY” were there.
This next bit is definitely Columbia but once again I drank until patches of my memory disappeared. This time I met a couple of girls at a bar or liquor store and went home with them. Although the part I’m missing is how I ended up back at their apartment, Occam’s Razor would suggest some degree of flirtation and sexual interest was involved.
I came around in the middle of the following performance but first I need to fill in some background. I had performed with Rotten Milk at the International Noise Conference in Miami early in 2008 and traveled with him for some shows before and after. We brought Lisers with us to a Florida house with a tandem bicycle where she accidentally burned a tiny hole in a plastic measuring cup with hot oil while making the popular egg and bread breakfast called “toad in the holes”.
Since then I’d been wearing the ruined cup around my neck with a ball chain. I also had several large bags of Jelly Belly brand jelly beans in my shoulder bag. Stephany had been given them by her father, possibly for Christmas, and wasn’t particularly interested in eating them so she gave them to me instead.
I was doing a bit: I went into the kitchen of the girls’ apartment and announced I was going to cook a recipe that called for one quarter cup of jelly beans. That was the denomination of measuring cup I was wearing around my neck. I proceeded to pour the jellybeans into the cup where they instantly tumbled out through the hole in the bottom and onto the floor.
Much like the earlier incident of pretending to “accidentally” walk in on the people having sex this might have been more amusing to the people around me if I wasn’t in the mindset that it could only get funnier with repetition. I was probably carrying something in the neighborhood of six pounds of jelly beans and I was tenaciously committed to the bit. After the first bag the girls started demanding that I stop but I would not be deterred:
“Wait, that isn’t a quarter cup yet!”
Once every jelly bean that I was carrying had found its way through the cup and onto their floor they weren’t particularly interested in having me in their house any more. They demanded I leave but I only reassured them that I would “after later” before crawling under a table and falling asleep. The next morning I let myself out and somehow found my way back to where everybody in CAVE was staying.
Columbia is essentially a small town so Cooper was curious as to whose house I’d just come from but I was still just drunk enough to have no idea what direction I’d even walked from.
I’ve been chatting with Rotten Milk tonight and consequently throwing my entire timeline into question but it isn’t really relevant to the details that make these stories amusing. At the very least I can say that I went on tour with CAVE in November of 2007 and some of these memories are undoubtedly from then.
The interesting thing to me about traveling with CAVE was that as much as I’d hung out with bands I’d never experienced the kind of archetypical masculine “tour van” energy which is usually thought of as characterizing both underground and mainstream rock music. Although it wasn’t by conscious design nearly all of my favorite bands had included female members and, with the exception of a gentle teddy bear type guest bassist at one show, I’d exclusively collaborated with women in my two rap groups.
The closest thing would have been Arab On Radar but I’d only really ridden with them for some Southern California shows and a day at Venice Beach back in 2000. Friends Forever was all guys but didn’t have the same kind of vibe due to the members essentially caravanning in separate vehicles rather than being packed together.
Actually I remember Friends Forever bassist Josh Taylor and keyboard player Jason cracking a few awkward “gay” jokes because me and drummer Nate Hayden always slept in each other’s arms in the covered bed of his pickup truck with his dogs. Nothing was afoot however – we simply shared the kind of easygoing masculine lumber camp camaraderie that reliably turns sexual in William S. Burroughs novels but in certain real life situations, such as this one, does not.
On the CAVE van energy: I’m struggling a little bit with how to describe this without it being taken the wrong way and I just decided not to worry about it. A van full of dudes makes fart jokes and talks about getting laid in a running tally that becomes competitive as the number of cities increases – it’s fine to think it’s gross as there are definitely gross things about it. I also thought it was fascinating and compelling in a way; like I was participating in a masculine ritual that stretches all the way back to Led Zeppelin and The Rolling Stones.
I realize that now I’m making it sound like vans full of touring women can’t make fart jokes or keep tally of who get’s laid when obviously they can and do. There’s just a certain flavor of undiluted testosterone and as an indoor kid turned theater kid turned gender non-conforming punk kid I never really had a chance to get acquainted with it.
Although I’m describing all of this with a detached anthropologist’s tone I was absolutely participating and contributing to this reality while it was happening. There was an “odd man out” who functioned as a kind of counterpoint to the general flow of energy in the van but it wasn’t me. It was Adam.
Adam Roberts has been in a lot of Columbia, Missouri bands. I don’t see him mentioned on the CAVE Wikipedia page but as far as I know he was a founding member. When I searched around I saw they had a song named after him but it was probably a kind of tribute from after he left the band. Him and Rotten Milk aren’t in the band anymore.
Adam had a kind of long suffering irritable “mother hen” energy that stuck out in contrast to the general laid back party vibes. He’s the only keyboard player I’ve ever known to tour with a specialized collapsible bench seat. He wasn’t much of a drinker and didn’t seem to share his band mates penchant for marijuana.
I’d say he had the sharpest sense of humor in the van, loaded with bitchiness and sarcasm, but you had to sit close to catch it as his jokes were more often than not delivered just under his breath. When a police officer called Rotten Milk back to his patrol car during a traffic stop Adam drily pantomimed a road side execution:
“You forgot your… kapow!!”
I never played or jammed with the band or even spent too much focus listening to their live sets but I could tell that Adam’s contributions sounded more like organ than piano and were collectively regarded as indispensable. I think the “odd couple” aspects of the social situation were also understood and enjoyed by everyone. I have no way to know but I’d be inclined to suspect his departure was triggered by health issues, general life stuff or any other explanation that doesn’t rest on it all being the way everyone interacted with each other.
On to more of the shows. Rotten Milk had a thing about The Replay Lounge in Lawrence, Kansas that goes like this – in inclement weather there is no place the smoking youth of Lawrence would rather be than the gaslamp heated patio at Replay. Hordes of college students will happily pay cover to drink and smoke the night away in toasty comfort – some of them might even decide to forgo smoking long enough to step inside and watch a song or two.
This feels of only peripheral importance when the entertainer’s contract is written in such a way that the Lion’s share of the door moneys go directly to the artist regardless of whether anybody was actually in the room watching at all — and perhaps a percentage of liquor sales on top. Rotten would often wax ecstatic about how the right cold night at The Replay could pull a national tour from running at a loss to being completely covered and even paying out per diems in a single night.
Spirits were high as this had turned into just such an evening and this most likely colored responses toward the pair of characters the universe had chosen to bring our way. First up was, I believe, Dr. Matthew who found us either inside a record store or just on the street somewhere. The Doctor was essentially a self promoter but painted through with an overpowering stripe of cryptotheological vaingloriousness. He would always offer a brief glimpse into his compositions in this heavy handed way:
“Hello, I’m Doctor Matthew and I’d like to share with you some of the greatest living music that the Lord Jesus Christ has seen fit to manifest through me – if you’re ready!”
I doubt I’ve done it perfect justice but do feel that I captured the general tone. Lawrence is a University town so he may well have been using the honorific Professor as opposed to Doctor. We would have been ecstatic to take him up on his offer but he carried neither instruments nor recordings and had the squirrely energy of someone you should not allow to touch your guitar under any circumstance.
The negotiations suddenly took an unexpected twist. Professor Matthew had removed the option of a recital from the table and was simply looking to buy. God had evidently taken notice of Rex McMurty and concluded that Rex was the only possible percussionist for the Prof’s continued endeavors. While God sees and hears all Matthew had not, failing to take in the group’s egalitarian structure, but he put his faith in his deity and began offering Cooper generous quantities of cash to “buy his drummer”.
This was an untenable offer for two main reasons: 1) Rex enjoyed playing in CAVE and saw himself as an equal partner by virtue of his contributions – a view that was shared by his companions. 2) CAVE was not particularly structured like a slave plantation and there was neither precedent nor protocol to begin selling members off to outside interests. We distanced ourselves from Professor Matthew without ever learning if he had either the chops or Cha-Ching! he’d been hinting at – leaving us only to speculate.
The next proposition unfortunately managed to hit the band in one of their weak spots – right in the drugs. It came from a townie who I’ll call Daniel who did come see the show. Daniel had just gone through a messy breakup and didn’t want to spend the night alone in his apartment. He also mentioned having copious amounts of marijuana and hashish.
Within a couple of exchanges he proved himself to be a deeply unpleasant person to talk to:
“My girlfriend just left me but I’ve got this new twenty year old I’ve been fucking the shit out of!”
Nonetheless the decision was made to take him up on his offer. Along with the promises of a stoner’s cornucopia it seems possible that he also represented the only option for a free crash spot in Lawrence. His apartment had a fairly fancy and modern, for the time, kitchen area with the brushed steel refrigerator and polished granite countertops. Unfortunately besides that it was bleak inside. Plain Pantone #f0ead6 eggshell walls without so much as a single picture, book or even magazine in sight.
I had a tendency to be the last person awake on this tour which often led to whoever we were hanging out with confiding their life story to me. Daniel’s was about as fascinating as you’d imagine. He’d been following The String Cheese Incident on tour until he got left in Lawrence and decided to remain in the college town and work his way up to becoming a mid level drug dealer. The realities of a university aged population allowed him to leverage his limited life experience advantageously against the people he was selling drugs to and having sex with.
Truly inspirational stuff.
Before going to bed he asked us to make sure to wake him up in the morning because he’d gotten a bunch of eggs and stuff for breakfast. I don’t remember it being discussed in so much as a whisper when we cooked, ate in silence and then tiptoed out the door the next morning. Everybody was already on the same page.
I’m trying to double check my memory and I’m pretty sure this trip was the first time I ever set foot in Texas. As many times as I’d traveled between Chicago and California all of my rides and buses must have taken a more Northern route. Anyway I thought Cooper was exaggerating when he insisted that everybody finish any marijuana they might have on them and throw their pipes and papers out the window before we crossed over the state line.
He wasn’t.
We hadn’t even been in Texas for fifteen minutes when we got pulled over and a red faced good old boy dramatically threw open the sliding door on the side of the van. He made a big show of sniffing the air like a witch looking for children in a fairytale before he drawled out:
“When’s the last time you boys got high?”
Slag was in the driver’s seat so he ended up playing point guy to most of the questions:
“We don’t get high sir.”
The cop laughed incredulously:
“Y’all don’t get high? You wouldn’t lie to me would you? You were raised better’n that weren’t you?”
At each pause everybody chimed back with a subdued chorus of “No Sirs” like petulant schoolchildren. He scoffed a second time:
“Y’all are a band ain’t you? What kind of band don’t get high? What kind of music you even play?”
Cooper answered this one:
“Rock and roll sir.”
I would learn a couple of years later when touring with Generation that this was the only acceptable answer – Classic Rock if you wanted to be really careful. After the role play had run its course and the cops had determined that nobody had been stupid enough to leave marijuana where they might actually find it they flipped a switch and became genuinely friendly. They even told us about a shortcut to get into Austin while avoiding traffic so we wouldn’t be late for sound check.
Another reason that I think I must have ridden with CAVE on two separate tours is that they definitely played Emo’s this first time around but I also remember a show in a smaller place with flames on the side that kind of looked like San Diego’s Casbah. An old friend of the band was working at Emo’s and he got mad when we didn’t leave the door to the green room open:
“Hey you guys can’t be sniffing drugs in here!”
This turned out to be projection. I was once again the last person awake and talking when he offered me some cocaine much later in the night. This may well be the first time I turned down free hard drugs in my adult life but a small line just as I was about to try to fall asleep didn’t sound especially appealing.
We must have gone to Austin two separate times because there wouldn’t have been a full day to meet up with Nick from El Rancho on this first tour. The guys in CAVE waited around Nick’s mom’s wine bar while me and him took buses to the other side of town to meet his heroin dealer. The way Rotten Milk described it was that I did a standup routine where I came out of the bathroom nearly too high to even stand without falling and proceeded to obliviously tell awful jokes nobody thought were funny for nearly an hour.
Nick’s mom pretended not to notice like she always does. I wonder if she remembered my name from when I left syringes all over the apartment she was renting for Nick in the Chicago neighborhood Boy’s Town way back in 2001. It is a pretty distinctive name.
The main thing I’m having trouble resolving with the time line is Bleak End at Bernie’s. I think I remember jumping the bill with this project at at least one show but I didn’t even own a drum machine yet for the 2007 tour and the project didn’t exist under that name until the Autumn of 2008. Most of the time on the tours I was just hanging out without trying to perform.
There was a town where we had an extra day and heard about a grunge themed party so we quickly practiced a version of Hole’s Violet where I did vocals. We called the band Uncle Grunge. The party had a cardboard cutout of Seattle’s space needle against the wall and everybody wore flannels. I think it might have been in Milwaukee or Minneapolis.
The reason I feel so confident about this is because of my fan from Houston. I had one “pure fan” in the sense that she didn’t already know me socially before getting into the Bleak End stuff. If you’ve ever watched the Flight of the Conchords show she kind of reminds me of the fan character from that. This would have been at the space called Notsuoh.
Notsuoh reminded me a bit of the kind of artist spaces that mostly got destroyed and evicted in the early 2000’s on waves of gentrification and urban development. Even though it’s in downtown Houston it’s most likely been able to hold onto its space because of the profitable licensed bar on the ground floor. Buying the building during the blighted nineties and possible links to organized crime wouldn’t have hurt either. The owner showed us unused spaces in the upstairs filled with old store fixtures and giant sign letters and that sort of thing. We all ended up sleeping on the roof.
I saw that it’s still open on the internet but I haven’t been back in the last fifteen years to see if the upstairs portions still look like that.
There was supposed to be a show at a space in Monterrey, Mexico called El Garaje but after crossing into Nuevo Laredo CAVE opted not to go as they were borrowing a friend’s van and couldn’t get temporary insurance. I was severely tempted to try to catch a bus down myself but chickened out because I neither knew my way around Mexico and it’s intercity bus system nor had upgraded my Spanish to the conversational level yet.
Although I was never actually booked at the Monterrey show and would have been trying to jump the bill I consider this the first of a series of unsuccessful attempts to play in Mexico. The next one happened in 2012 when I only found out that I’d be able to get onto a Mexico City show after I’d already flown to Cancún. Even now I’ve only ever managed to play Tijuana.
On the 2007 tour we went to New Orleans for what was my first visit to the city since a Greyhound trip in 2000. The Katrina damage was still fresh and there were MPs on the street instead of normal police. I can’t remember if the CAVE show got broken up by these Military Police or if this was a story I’d heard about a Warhammer 48k show that had happened a year or so earlier.
I most likely jumped off the tour in New Orleans and spent a few days with some Columbia Diaspora girls nicknamed the “flavor wasting hoes”, because they had thrown away a bunch of universally admired kitchen spices, before making myself a counterfeit Greyhound pass to return to Chicago. New Orleans was one of the last large cities where you could reliably use one of those without worrying about anybody recognizing the fraud.
I remember the lady at the ticket desk had self-cutting scars covering her arms from the wrists to the insides of her elbows. You don’t see something like that and worry that you’re about to get caught up on anything. She clearly had her own demons to battle so why should she care about the authenticity of my pass?