[Photo Credit: Jamspackula]
The train barreled through the night. We must have been flying along pretty fast because the wind was making the cold nearly unbearable. I live on an isolated mountain forty five minutes from the closest mid-size city but the night of this ride was the darkest sky and brightest stars I ever remember seeing. You can follow dirt roads in the desert to the middle of nowhere but when train tracks bend away from highways and even the possibility of a headlight for hundreds of miles it’s a different kind of night sky.
Deep inky black velvet with stars as bright as planets and the Milky Way screaming through like a tear in space.
The night felt especially cold because Leg and I were in the midst of a “lover’s quarrel” and weren’t on good enough terms to even share body heat. I’ve been kind of skirting around sex and relationships in these pieces, at least the ones that actually mattered to me emotionally, but I’m going to go into the one I had with Leg in a little more detail.
Chicago as a city is really into it’s corner breakfast spots. They usually have a more in depth menu but everybody is generally getting two eggs, hash brown, toast and either two bacon or two sausages. It’s like every few blocks has it’s own independent Waffle House – similar to donut shops in Los Angeles and burrito places in San Diego. I was eating with friends at the one we had kind of adopted and been adopted by when the Peter Pan-ish blond waitress slipped me her phone number.
Ours was the only relationship I’ve ever been in where we didn’t spend every moment of our available time together from the instant we decided it was “on”. We would see each other once or twice a week – it’s not my usual way but I liked how “adult” it felt. I would find out later that this was usually because she was seeing other people. It’s not like we had ever discussed being exclusive but she was very private and secretive about it.
Most of my male friends have actually cheated and lied about it as well instead of just being ommissive and I’m not really the jealous type but I would have appreciated knowing what was going on.
My personal tendency is to be completely, and often brutally, honest – especially in matters pertaining to sex, drugs or rock n’ roll. Between the end of the Living Hell tour and Leg meeting up with me in Chicago I had been with a couple of people and I thought it was best to be transparent about it. In detail. In retrospect things would have gone smoother if I just kept it all to myself but fundamentally that isn’t my nature. It was one of the many ways that we weren’t completely compatible and reasons that we aren’t together now.
Generally a freezing cold night in the desert means it’s about to be followed by a brutally hot day. Without clouds all the heat from the sun that the ground absorbed dissipates but it also means that there’s nothing to protect you from that same sun when it comes back up. We maintained speed through most of Arizona which created a breeze and made things bearable but as Brodie’s photocopied map showed me that we were crossing into California we slowed down, did a lot more siding (when the train stops to allow higher priority trains to pass) and the sun inched steadily higher into the sky.
The metal we were riding on got progressively hotter and insulating ourselves away from it with sleeping bags only did so much. I had a pink polyester nightgown that I liked to put on whenever I was feeling like a little whisp of a thing but now I was wearing it so that I can hold it over myself like a tent to protect me from the relentless sun. It helped a little but not too much. The picture is of me and my friend Manal after we discovered that we both had the exact same one.
We called them “Hailie Selassies” for a reason I can’t seem to remember.
The sun was approaching it’s hottest position of the day, the desert began to look endless and the sidings were becoming both more frequent and interminably long. We carried at least two gallons of water with us when we first boarded in Amarillo but we were nearing the bottom of our reserve. The sun and metal train had heated it to approximately the temperature that one would steep tea in – I’ve heard that hot water is more efficient in terms of hydration but it didn’t feel particularly refreshing or cooling.
After siding in place for an hour we caught sight of an actual highway that we’d gone back to running along and hitchhiking was started to seem like a better deal than sweating in a hot metal box that wasn’t even moving. We gathered our packs and bags and crawled over to the asphalt. Leg said we looked like the backup dancers from Thriller and she wasn’t far off – we were dirty, our lips were chapped, our eyes were bloodshot, we’d had far too much sun and we were starting to awkwardly move in ways that resembled the signature dance moves.
Leg also figured that the first passing motorist would have to gives us a ride as we were in the middle of nowhere and clearly suffering from sun exposure. This wasn’t the case – traffic was slow but the few vehicles that were going by seemed to have no issues not picking us up whatsoever. Finally it seemed that a car had noticed us and pulled over a few yards ahead. He was visibly shocked when we came jogging up because he had just pulled off to use his cellphone but he agreed to give us a ride anyway.
I don’t know if he had genuinely not seen us or if he was just cool with looking at us and leaving us to deal with sun exposure but he at least wasn’t going to tell us no to our faces.
It turned out that we were just outside of Barstow which meant that from around 9 pm the previous night we had covered nearly one thousand miles – really good distance for freight travel. I would learn later that it was coincidentally a stroke of good luck that we’d thrown in the towel when we did as the Barstow Yard is notorious for using both cameras and thermal imaging to pull riders off trains because of the high number of undocumented immigrants passing through on them.
It’s also supposed to be especially harsh concerning prosecution and punishment, far more than Sullivan, Illinois.
Our ride dropped us at a place called Barstow Station – a combination truck stop, Greyhound Station and Amtrak with an over the top railroad theme. Several restaurants including a McDonald’s were set up in old converted train cars. It was an interesting juxtaposition grabbing free cups of ice water from something that looked a lot like the thing we had just been overheating and becoming dangerously dehydrated in.
I’m not usually one for train themed fashion accessories but I couldn’t resist the Barstow Station embroidered patches they had for sale. They featured a colorful train in blues and oranges with a bit of a Babes in Toyland feel. Maybe there circus animals poking their heads out of the cars or something. We both got one and I carried mine in my wallet for years without getting around to sewing it on anything until I lost the wallet. I poked around online but couldn’t find any pictures of it.
We were able to use the counterfeit Greyhound passes we were still carrying to catch a bus to Oakland without any problems. I didn’t really start having problems using them until a later in the Summer – just before and just after the trip to Australia. It took a lot of having friends drive out to the smaller regional stations but I did successfully finish every trip I attempted. I probably could have stretched it out longer but I decided to quit while I was ahead and hang my hat up early.
I’d had a good run with them – most folks I knew had stopped using them years earlier.
John let us stay in Quinn’s special attic room at the Purple Haus and me and Leg finally made up and she drew a cool flyer for the Living Hell reunion show. I was trying to figure out what to use to replace the talismanic dagger that the train police had stolen when I found a conductor’s baton just stuck into the ground like The Sword in the Stone at People’s Park and it became one of my key talismans and one of the last I lost. The show was the first time I saw Rain performing with her brother Joel but the three of us would end up doing two full US Tours together.
I eventually moved to Oakland and into Apgar and attempted to resume the substitute teacher work I had been doing in Chicago but I dropped off some paperwork in my “street clothes” and got my employment offer rescinded for being a messy genderqueer goth. It was a learning experience – I only appeared in conjunction with education jobs dressed in “business casual drag” from then on out. I got a job working for a private tutoring company doing programs based on No Child Left Behind funds which is an essay in itself I might get around to some day.
When I made the move to Los Angeles I ended up working in one of their tutoring centers, the Bay Area jobs had always been inside of schools, and for several months everything was fine. Then one day I get a phone call:
“It has been brought to our attention that you have a violation in the section of Penal Code related to murder, mayhem, rape, sodomy…”
“Excuse me?”
“And then the list goes on to lesser and lesser charges…”
“Yeah, trespassing probably. I got pulled off a freight train once. I didn’t report it as a conviction on my application because as far as I knew it wasn’t”
“Needless to say we’ll need to terminate your employment…”
“Ok, it was nice getting to teach while it was lasted.”
That was that until I got another call from them about three days later:
“We’ve looked into it and your charges don’t actually make you ineligible to work with minors so if you’re interested we’d love to have you back…”
It was about as good of a review as I could have hoped for: that even with the severe tone of that first phone call they wanted me back tutoring kids again. Brodie went back to Sullivan to deal with his charges but I just assumed that if I ignored it for long enough it would. My employer already knew about it and had decided they didn’t care so I didn’t see how else it would be a problem for me all the way in California.
Then in 2011 I attempted to go to the Gathering of the Juggalos…